Hi, I’m Bowden McElroy. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor. I help people get unstuck. When the difference between where you want to be and where you think you currently are in life seems huge, I can help you move through the obstacles and achieve your goals.
I am also an Ordained Minister. I combine the best of what the behavioral sciences have to offer with a Christ-centered, biblical worldview.
I have been in the counseling field since 1983 and have been in private practice for over 25 years.
For years, I have worked with adults, teens, and children in individual, marital, and family therapy. Part of that work includes teaching workshops and seminars on a variety of topics. People kept asking for a copy of my notes and it seemed to me that if I were going to give my notes away I may as well try to reach a wider audience.
To that end, I write on managing your emotions, healthy marriages, effective parenting, and what to do when technology gets the best of you. On occasion, I write about stuff that doesn’t fit neatly into one of these categories. You can find out more on my Start Here page.
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I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and have been in in the mental health field for nearly 40 years.
When I graduated with my B.S. from Oklahoma State University in 1981 I couldn’t decide if I wanted to be a pastor who does some counseling or a counselor who worked with churches. Either way, I decided, I would need a graduate education in counseling.
I earned my M.Ed. in Counseling Psychology from Central State University in 1983 and became an Associate Pastor at a large church in Edmond, Oklahoma where I was responsible for individual, marital, and family counseling. After that I spent a year working in rural Oklahoma for a community mental health center.
In the early 1980’s there were only a few options in the country for getting an education in Christian counseling. Since moving my family across the country was not really an option I chose to to round out my education by attending seminary.
I began working in psychiatric hospitals while a student at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. For the next 11 years I worked in and eventually managed inpatient, psychiatric programs. Most of that time was with an organization that no longer exists but at one time was the largest provider of hospital-based Christian mental health treatment in the country.
By the mid-1990’s the world of hospital care was changing dramatically with managed care, short stays, and increased emphasis on medication. Therapy was becoming less and less important in hospitals. In 1996 I joined the staff at Christian Family Institute (CFI) as an outpatient counselor. In 2017 I began my own practice (BMA Counseling).
Along the way I became trained in being a long-term, strategic, interim pastor. I have been trained in both the Intentional Interim Pastor model and the Transitional Pastor model. I have served in four churches as a strategic interim and was Ordained at Immanuel Baptist Church (Sallisaw, Oklahoma) in 2002.
I have been married to Sherri – a public school, second grade teacher – for forty-one years. We have three daughters, two sons-in-law, three grandsons, and three granddaughters. Sherri and I live in Tulsa, Oklahoma.
In my free time, I enjoy reading, fishing, and am attempting to get back into running. I am a member of Southwood Baptist Church in Tulsa, Oklahoma where I have taught a Sunday morning bible study for several years.
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